Wednesday, January 14, 2015
A Textbook Overview
My First Book Critique
Wednesday, April 16, 2014
We Are Made To Give Birth
Further on in the book she recalls the history of how we got to the modern idea of birth, and says that if we forget all of those ideas and just "let our monkey do it" we will be better off. I agree that we need to come to birth with the assumption that birth is a normal process, but we aren't descended from monkeys, so I would say that you just need to trust that God made your body just fine, and you need to let your body work the way it was created to work. Another thing she says is that "imagining yourself as a powerful mammal can help you feel empowered". I think it is helpful to look at animals and see that they give birth just fine, usually without any help at all, and say to yourself "if God designed animals to have babies just fine, then I know I can have a baby without unnecessary intervention." But to imagine that you, who are created in the image of God, is just an animal is, in my opinion, wrong.
I would recommend that instead of trying to let your monkey do it, or imagining you are an animal, you should memorize Isaiah 66:9 "Shall I bring to the birth, and not cause to bring forth? saith the LORD: Shall I cause to bring forth and shut the womb? saith thy God." I found that verse completely by accident one day, but I wrote it down because it is a great promise to remember when you are pregnant, or in labor. I remembered it earlier as I was trying to critically read through and find what I disagreed with, and why.
I realized then, that while she was right in stating that we need to get our thinking brain out of the way of our acting brain, attributing natural birth to a primitive evolutionary instinct that we need to tap into is wrong. What we need to tap into is the fact that God designed us to give birth and that we need to not try and "play god" with our unnecessary medical interventions.
This post is not to say that all medical advancements are bad. I've never said that, and I never will. It was simply an intriguing thought to me that you could have the correct knowledge and attribute it to the wrong source.
Monday, November 25, 2013
The Game of Hurry up and Wait...
On Thursday November 21st I got off work, checked my phone, and found 6 missed calls, a new voice mail, and several text messages, all from Mom and Dad. Whoops! I called Mom back to find out what was going on, turns out that she was on her way to pick up some extra equipment from the cottage in Mississippi when she had a blowout!! Thankfully Dad was able to go rescue her because shortly after he got to where she was the call came in that our Mother To Be (Hence forth MTB) was having contractions three hours away. At this point I'm still in Alabama so I pulled up the GPS on my phone to find the routes that we could take that would meetup somewhere so that we didn't have to take two cars all the way to the birth. After confirming the routes with Mom I got on the road, and an hour and a half later we met up and left her car in a parking lot.
Now comes the hurry part! On my way to the rendezvous I was only driving 80mph, but after I picked up Mom, and her bag of instruments that would legitimize our speeding if we were pulled over, I bumped it up to around 85-90mph. Well when we were 50 miles from our destination the MTB calls to tell us that her water has just broken!! After that I floored it!! At one point I was doing 105mph!! And I'm not gonna lie, it was FUN! :) Thankfully I didn't get pulled over, and we made that last 50 miles in about 30 minutes.
Then the wait... When we finally got to the house around 5:30 the MTB was doing well and was progressing, but was only about half way dilated. So after Mom checked the baby's heart tones we sat in the living room and waited, Mom had a magazine and I scrolled Pinterest.
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Guest Post from the Senior Midwife a.k.a. My Momma :)
The Predicted Rise In Maternal Mortality Rates Is Sadly Here
The Maternal Mortality rate was quietly rising back in 2007. The widely published book Pushed said solid numbers were soon to come1. I hate to tell you, but they're here. In 2010 California reported the number of women dying from birth had tripled. Florida and New York have since followed suit.2
The context, the cover-up and the uncanny about these statistics:
Context
Maternal mortality reported rates are 21 deaths per 10,000 births nation-wide. 3 This is double digit losses amid thousands of births. The increase over a generation is single digit. Likely, you will never personally experience the mountain of grief behind these cold facts.
Heart-numbing context aside, two things should be keeping Americans up at night:
Cover Up
New York, California and Florida are likely the only regions conveying the truth. The serious situation in other areas is lost to inconsistent data collection. Maternal mortality reporting in the US is so poor that Amnesty International called it a human rights violation in 2010.
Uncanny
This very same scenario has unfolded before. In 1918 a strange piece of news surfaced. Counties were seeing scattered increases in maternal mortality rates.4 This trend spread over the next two years. It was not until 1932 that a national level hearing was convened to determine the cause!! 5
Sadly, we have repeated our mistakes. Digging back, we find the earliest rumblings of mounting risks to modern birthing woman. They were heard back in 19946. The rescue is way overdue!
Notes:
1. Pushed by Jennifer Block, 2007 Da Capo Press. Page 119
2. Birth Matters by Ina May Gaskin, 2011 Seven Stories Press. Page 126
3. http://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SH.STA.MMRT retrieved 10/18/13
4. Lying-in: A History of Childbirth in America by Richard W. Wertz, 1989 Yale University Press Page 155
5. Lying-in “ Page 161
6. Birth Matters by Ina May Gaskin, 2011 Seven Stories Press. Page 126
Next posts in the series:
Your Safe Haven In The Midst Of the Storm
Could a Maternity Solution Birth a Cure for Our Nation’s Healthcare?
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Random Chance? Star Dust? God?
After I had that astounding revelation, my next thought was, how can people think that this all happens by random chance? I mean come on people! We are the most complex life forms on this planet and we didn't even know about DNA until about the 1960s! How on earth do we think that all of this came together by happenstance? The odds of just one protein chain forming on its own are incredible, and for us to think that every living thing, from amoebas to humans, just happened to come together from star dust, or an oozing slime pit, or a big explosion, is just mind blowing! I don't under stand how anyone with a brain in their head can look out on this amazing planet, at our complex solar system, at ourselves, and not see in it the handy work of a master Creator.
While I am studying I am reading over, and over, and over the whole process of gestation, and it never ceases to amaze me. To think that every person started as a single cell with 46 chromosomes, and over the relatively short period of nine months becomes a living, breathing human being is astounding! Looking at the process, and seeing how complex it is, and how easily it could go wrong, yet rarely does, I can't comprehend how someone could think it's just a coincidence.
When you see a baby born so perfectly human, yet oh soo tiny, and you know the journey it has made in the previous nine months, how can you say that there is no God? No master Creator?
-Megan
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
Life? Choice? Baby? Pregnancy?
It saddens me to see people kidding themselves and others by referring to that life, that baby, as just a "pregnancy" when you want to "terminate", a.k.a. kill, it.
Thus ends my rant for the day.
